REVAMP!!!

2010年8月1日...敬请期待！！！

REVAMP!!!

2010年8月1日...敬请期待！！！

Cheeky!!! (borrowed from Jan)

Barbara Walters of Television's 20/20 did a story on gender roles in Kabul, Afghanistan, several years before the Afghan conflict. She noted that women customarily walked 5 paces behind their husbands.

She recently returned to Kabul and observed that women still walk behind their husbands.

From Ms. Walter's vantage point, despite the overthrow of the oppressive Taliban regime, the women now seem to walk even further back behind their husbands and are happy to maintain the old custom.

Ms. Walters approached one of the Afghani women and asked, "Why do you now seem happy with the old custom that you once tried so desperately to change?"

The woman looked Ms. Walters straight in the eyes, and without hesitation said, "Land mines."

wo de jue ding dui ma?

sui ran yi jue ding cong xin hui dao gong si...ye jin guan jue ding huo xu zao jiu zuo hao le...dan...ci ke de wo que mian ling le hen da de ya li...wo yao zen me zhi dao zi ji de jue ding shi fou zheng que?...zen me qu bu li hui ta ren dui wo zhe ge jue ding de yan guang?...ru he tiao shi zi ji dui yu gong zuo de tai du?...sui ran wo zhi dao wo bing mei you hou hui dang chu li kai gong si de jue ding...yin wei dang shi, wo que shi bi xu zhe me zuo...BUT...ta ren nan mian yi yang de yan guang...wo you ying yi shen me li chang qu ying dui ne?...

wo zi ren yi zhi dou hen yong gan...bu guo zhe ci de kao yan ye wei mian you dian da ba...

"(
(zen me ban ne?)

Beautiful...

Although we have to be apart
We'll always be together
Close enough in mind and heart
To manage any weather.
Reality is often bleak
But love remains inside
A glass house on a mountain peak
The wintry world beside.

Love can build its own four walls
And heat its own small room.
Through icy winds and blinding squalls
Love can be in bloom.

Though continents drift far downstream
And mountains disappear
And life dissolve into a dream
Our love will still be here
You'll turn, and I'll be here.
-copyright by Nicholas Gordon

mY cOnfEssIons

i honestly never thought tat i would find anyone else after him...& fall for HIM the way i do for him...after him...i realli believed tat no one is in the world deserves my love anymore...but after havin being together with HIM...i realised tat i was actualli able to love once again...it is a realisation & more of an exclaimation...i thought i had closed the doors to my heart...but alas! it seems...we do have more courage than we thought possible...

havin spent 3 years to forget him & evything abt him...i thought my love for him was so great bcos i needed such a long time to get over it...but its with HIM tat i finally know wat it means to truly love someone...givin him the space he needed, toleratin his selfishness (or perhaps over-maturity), being able to FORGIVE and changin from pretendin not to care to true benevolence.

a fren once messaged me: i can feel ur love & concern for HIM, give him some time if u're truly waitin for him...

my reply: actually i'm not waitin for him. I juz wan him to b happy. Its no point if he's too stressed up being with me.

I may have told many lies in my life...but the second statement is the truest of all...there's isnt anythin else tat matters more to me than his happiness...

we will b goin overseas in a couple more days...in the same country...but distance apart...

fly than...freely...juz think of me sometimes...tats all i hope for...

dEdicAted 2 JaNice... (ps: always say i nv read ur blog "P)

iNtricAciEs aBt mE:
1. What time did you get up this morning? 0800
2. Diamonds or pearls? diamonds r a gal's best fren
3. What was the last film you saw at the movies? it was a comedy, but cant rem the title
4. What is your favorite TV show? --- nv watch veri long le
5. What did you have for breakfast? i had brunch wor
6. Your middle name(s)? jas
7. What is your favorite cuisine? maggi mee
8. What foods do you dislike? durian
9. What is your favorite crisp flavor? xiao!!!
10. What is your favorite CD at the moment? william so
11. What type of car do you drive? ---
13. What characteristics do you despise? superficiality...dishonesty
14. Favorite item of clothing? no favs in particular, anythin i like can le
15. If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go? right nw, its venice
16. Favorite brand of clothing? prob...topshop & forever21
17. Where would you like to retire to? somewhere with a large pasture
18. Favorite time of the day? mornin
19. What was your most memorable birthday? um...cant rem leh...prob the one we spent at aus
20. Where were you born? my home la
21. Favorite sport to watch? swimmin...Ian Thorpe is still my fav...
22 . Who do you least expect to send this back to you? no expectation wor
23. Who do you expect to send it back first? no expectation...tis is gettin irritatin
24. What fabric detergent do you use? dynamo
25. Coke or Pepsi? pepsi
26. Are you a morning person or a night owl? mornin person la
27. What is your shoe size? 8
28. Do you have any pets? ya a dog
30. What did you want to be when you were little? an airstewardess
31. Summer/Winter? Summer
Favorite Advertisement?no time to watch tv
***************RIGHT NOW*****************
Wearing? my uniform
Eating? nothin to eat wor
Drinking? Water
Thinking about? him as usual
Book? lisa kleypas's scandal in spring
**********THE LAST 24 HOURS**************
Cried? nope
Met someone new? met, yes...known, no
Cleaned your room? not in the last week
Driven a car? nope
How many hours sleep? 7
*************DO YOU BELIEVE IN* *************
God? um... sometimes
Yourself? ya, most often
Your friends? some
Santa Claus? yes
Destiny/Fate? Yes & No
Ghosts? Not Only
**********FRIENDS AND LIFE**********
Who have you known the longest of your friends? porky, meihui, sam, carina, jan,
Who do you go to for advice? definitely jan
When do you cry the most? anytime, anywhere wor, whenever i think of him
Do you want your friends to do this and send it back to you? no need ba

相约来到这世上 却在途中失散 走的路是否一样
看着同一片艳阳 我忽然有预感 久违的陌生人会遇上

上帝布置的悲伤 和分配的阳光 你和我是否一样
拥抱同一种信仰 我忽然有预感 我们会是彼此的星探

也许是你笑的弧度跟我很像
也许是因为守护的星座和我一样
也许是漫长的黑夜特别孤单
才会背靠着背一起等天亮

黑夜如果不黑暗 美梦又何必向往 破晓会是坚持的人最后获得的奖赏
黑夜如果太黑暗 我们就闭上眼看 希望若不熄灭就会亮成心中的星光